Some of us spend lots of time flirting on Dating App but have no one to fall in love with. Maybe some of these tips below will be helpful to you.
Texting is an art that the texter is the artist.
Sometimes, all you need is a litle subtlety that makes the other fall for you from the “texting stage”. Let find out what you should and should not do while texting on Social and Dating App with Fika!
How to start a conversation
“Do”: Starting the conversation with their interests
You should open your conversation base on their interests, personality, and remember to pay attention to small hints on their profile pictures. “Hey, you like reading just like I do!” or “We have the same personality type, such a perfect match!” is a smarter way to start. Sometimes, such small noticement is the reason for deep and meaningful talk.
2. “Don’t”: Shallow responses
If people ghosted you while texting, maybe you should take a look back and see whether your answer is too shallow. If they tell you a story, listen with interest instead of “Um”, “Oh, is that so?”, or “Hihi”. These kinds of responses will makes your opponent misjudge you as a disrespectful person, and your dialogue will be hard to continue on.
How to reply?
“Do”: Think and research deeper
When they discuss about something you have no idea about, search it on the internet if it’s a basic information. If it is not really your favourite topic, just keep listening and try a subtle way to change the subject. On Dating App, if you show yourself not willing to listen, they will think that you don’t like talking to them and eventually giving up on you.
3. “Don’t”: Spam with messages and propose to fast
After a few hours texting, you ask them: “Will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend?”, or “I love you so much!”. This is not wrong (if you are not sending this message to 10 different individuals), but proposing too fast can scare them and make them feel unsafe.
The right time to propose
“Do”: Have a strategy, wait for the proper moment
Dating on app needs detailed strategy just like on real life. It takes time to know each other, start having strong feelings and only after that stage, they can consider the next step. Few dates in real life might be neccesary in order to get to know each other more.
Hopefully these tips will be helpful to you on your dating life!